FROM UNIVERSITY OF MISSOURI EXTENSION
SOUTHWEST REGIONAL NEWS SERVICE
Contact: Renette Wardlow, human development specialist
Headquartered in Christian County
Tel: (417) 581-3558
E-mail: wardlowr@missouri.edu
First person column …
Limit Exposure to Bad News by Turning Off the Television
Each and every day television shrinks the world and brings it into our living
rooms.
A study by Mediascope reported that 57 percent of the American public thinks
television news gives too much attention to stories about violent crime and
disaster. In this study, half of those polled said that they turned the TV off
or changed the channel to prevent their family members from seeing something on
the news.
"Think of TV as a stranger in your home," recommends Jerome L. Singer, Ph.D.,
co-director of the Yale University Family Television Research and Consultation
Center in New Haven, Conn. "We have to decide under what circumstances we want
the stranger in our house."
It can be very important to a person’s mental health to limit exposure to the
news and other television programs about tragic events.
PEACE OF MIND
The question now becomes, "How do we stay calm in our changing world?"
The world has changed for all of us. Because of that, anxiety is a normal
response.
Every day we hear about war, violence, drugs, child abductions and we shouldn’t
feel embarrassed about feeling fearful as a result. The problem is we now have
to live our lives in a changing world. Yet, we have a choice.
We can become paralyzed by our anxiety or we can figure out how to live a safe,
full life.
TAKE CONTROL
Here are some tips for taking control in a world where it seems you often have
little control:
Take steps to keep safe. Instead of becoming panicky about news reports on
disastrous events, become knowledgeable on what you would do in different
emergency situations. Prepare your home for emergencies or disasters. Think of
concrete steps you can take to stay safe rather than allowing yourself to be
swept up in anxiety about what might happen.
Spend time with family and friends. Talking with loved ones about what is
happening is helpful for everyone. Spending time getting your mind off current
events is also helpful. Family and friends remind you what is important in life
and help you feel loved and secure.
Get help if you need it. If you find yourself unable to function, or if you are
concerned about your level of anxiety, talk to a professional. Specific problem
signs include sleep difficulties, loss of appetite, loss of interest in your
usual activities, irritability, obsessive thoughts, overwhelming guilt and
difficulty concentrating.
Control your exposure to the news; don't let the news control you. It can be
tempting to keep the television or radio on all the time. Instead, try reducing
your news intake and see if it reduces anxiety. Set specific guidelines
regarding news intake each day. Decide whether you will watch, read or listen to
the news. Decide how long and when you will do it. You may also find reading the
news, rather than watching it, will keep you informed without overloading your
emotions.
Take time to enjoy yourself. It's not wrong to have fun even in difficult times.
Take time to return to hobbies or pursuits enjoyed in the past. If you are still
having trouble feeling happy or having fun, it may be time to talk to a
counselor about how you’re feeling.
###
For more information on this topic contact Renette Wardlow in Ozark, Mo., at
(417) 581-3558. Wardlow has 20 years of experience with MU Extension. She earned
a bachelor’s and master’s degrees in human development and family studies from
the University of Arkansas, Fayetteville. She conducts programs related to
parenting, youth development, character education, 4-H, teen issues, anger and
stress management, building positive self-esteem and child development.