March 2009

Stress Management Brings Relief
 

We have all heard the word ‘stress’ many times in our lives. Stress is a reaction to change or conflict. Although it is usually considered to be negative, not all kinds of stress are bad. Stress can motivate us to get a project done or to handle a situation. However, too much stress can be harmful.


Stress and its causes can be confusing. Stressful events for one person may not be identified as stressful for someone else. These would be considered stressors for many people:

 

death of a spouse or loved one
injury or illness
marriage
pregnancy
change in finances
change in work responsibilities
loss of job
beginning or ending school
starting a new job
change in living conditions
vacation


We may not always recognize the signs of stress in ourselves. Here is a short list of some signs and symptoms of stress.

 

Frequently feeling irritated by other people
Easily becoming angry
Tension or tightness in neck or back
Changes in sleep patterns
Change in appetite
Diarrhea or constipation
Increased use of alcohol, drugs (even aspirin), coffee or cigarettes
Inability to concentrate
Headache or other body aches
Forgetfulness


Stress can have a negative impact on physical as well as mental health. Research has linked stress to headaches, allergies, coronary artery disease, high blood pressure and rheumatoid arthritis. People experiencing a great deal of stress appear to have less resistance to illness and may be more likely to catch a cold or the flu.


For someone experiencing a great deal of stress, reducing it would seem to be ideal. However, that is not always possible. More helpful for most of us are learning ways to manage stress and enhance relaxation. Taking time to exercise, prioritizing daily activities, spending time with friends, making time for yourself, planning play time and laughing are helpful stress management techniques.


Learning and practicing relaxation techniques can provide relief from stress that lasts far beyond the time you spend doing them. Here are a few examples:

 

1. Focus on Breathing. Stand in a comfortable position. Take a deep breath in and let it out slowly. As you exhale, relax from the top your head to the bottom of your toes. Focus separately on each area of your body as you move from head to toe. Relax your head, neck, shoulders, abdomen, legs, feet.
2. Progressive Muscle Relaxation. Alternate between tensing the muscles and relaxing them. Squeeze your hands into tight fists, then release and relax your fingers. Tense your arms and release. Tense your leg muscles and release. Repeat the activity with different muscle groups in the body.
3. Relaxation Vacation. Sit quietly in a comfortable position with both feet on the ground. Close your eyes. Imagine you are in a quiet place that you would enjoy visiting like a meadow, mountain, garden, beach. Feel the warmth of the sun shining down on you. A refreshing breeze gently wafts over you. Think about the sounds around you—the wind blowing through the trees, a bubbling stream, birds singing. What fragrances would you encounter on your vacation? Try to imagine them. Spend a few minutes engaging all your senses in this vacation spot.


University of Missouri Extension has developed a website with many resources for reducing stress. It is located at http://extension.missouri.edu/hes/healthystaff/index.htm Click on the Stress Less link on the left side of the page.
 

 

Linda Rellergert
rellergertl@missouri.edu
Nutrition Specialist


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