For grandparents and
grandchildren, laughing together is a way to bridge the generation
gap. Laughing together creates special bonds, strengthens
relationships and helps you share special moments. Its presence or
absence makes a big difference in the quality of our lives.
Did you know that most
adults laugh about 15 or 16 times daily while toddlers laugh about
400 times a day? There are hundreds of ways to make grandchildren
laugh—and it doesn’t take much effort.
A child’s sense of humor
and laughter changes with age. Babies don’t understand humor but
they do respond to comedy-gestures, facial expressions, silly sounds
or bouncing on your knee. When older, they like "itsy-bitsy" spider,
peek-a-boo and patty-cake.
Toddlers and preschoolers
have a sense of humor—even if you can’t figure it out! They love
word games and the sillier the better. If your grandchild is being
silly, play along and be silly too. It encourages the child’s sense
of humor and makes the moment special.
Children ages 5-7 may not
understand jokes and riddles, but they still love them. They often
will add their own hilarious punch lines. Sometimes their attempt at
humor makes no sense, other times it is better than yours. Example:
"Why does a leopard have spots." Answer? "Because he doesn’t like
stripes." Make sense? NO! But encouraging their humor is more
important than the punch line.