Think back to your teen or
young adult years….how were you described by your friends? Were you
called the "cute" or "handsome" one? Or were you described as the
one with the "great personality?" Back in our younger years, we all
probably wished to be remembered for our looks, not our
personalities. However, as it turns out, those of us who had more
personality than looks may actually live longer!
According to a study by the
National Institute of Aging (NIA), people with positive personality
traits can generally look forward to a few more years of life than
people who are anxious, depressed or angry. This 50-year-long study
revealed that people who keep busy mentally and physically, manage
stress in a healthy manner and are well-organized and competent in
their daily regimens tend to live two or three years longer than
people who do not follow those practices. It's also interesting to
note that basic personality traits generally don’t change much after
age 30. People who are cheerful and upbeat at age 30 will exhibit
similar personality traits as they age.
Among women, "assertiveness" was linked to a lower risk
of death. Assertive people ask questions and want answers. They
aren’t shy about talking with doctors and other health-care or
social service providers to get information.
Another implication of the
study is that people with positive personality traits are those who
develop and maintain social relationships. They make friends easily,
value those bonds, enjoy being around other people and
others enjoy their company.
We naturally prefer to
spend time with people who are positive and enthusiastic. It's nice
to know that having a "great personality" may also mean that we’ll
live a longer, more satisfying life.
Source: AARP Bulletin