Jackson
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By Nina Chen, Ph.D.
Human Development Specialist
It's time for your grandchildren to go back to school. As a second round parent, you desperately want your grandchildren to have a successful learning experience and a successful year in school.
Research shows that children who tend to have higher grades, better attendance, and a better chance of completing homework have a family member involved in school. They also show a positive attitude and are more involved in extra-curricular activities. What can you do to help? The following are some suggestions:
Communicating with grandchildren. This is the most important activity you can do anytime and place, such as in the car, on a bus, at mealtime, at bedtime. Ask grandchildren questions, listen for answers. Ask them about school and listen closely and respond with empathy when things are not going well. This interaction can foster better students and stronger relationships. When children have good habits of communication, they are in a good position to succeed.
Having a study area in your home. Designate an area in your home for study. This area should be quiet and away from distractions. Be sure to have it supplied with frequently needed items (paper, a dictionary, ruler, calculator, pencils, crayons, washable markers, paper clips, etc.).
Handling homework. Help your grandchildren manage homework by breaking it into smaller segments and plan how to do all the things they need to do, for instance study, work around the house, play, etc. Let them know that education is important and homework has to be done. Check homework for completeness, but don't do the homework for them. Teach them to do things for themselves rather than do the work for them. Don't demand perfection. Let them know that you have confidence in them. Taking time to read. Let your grandchildren see you read. Read to them and read aloud together. Use the book to talk about issues or why the characters acted as they did. Have books and other reading materials in the house. Take them to the library and bring home some books for them and yourself. Children are more likely to read if adults around them read.
Developing a reasonable schedule and consistent rules. Involve children in setting up a reasonable schedule of jobs around the house and family rules. List them on the calendar. Be sure to put a plan into action and follow through. When a family has consistent rules and a routine schedule, children feel confidence and know what to expect.
Monitoring TV viewing. Set limits on TV watching. Choose shows and watch TV together. This can be a good opportunity to discuss what you see and share your family values.
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University of Missouri Extension Jackson County Jacksonblsp@missouri.edu Updated 12/13/06 |
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