We’re often so busy thinking what we’re going to say next that we don’t listen to what others are saying to us. We do this with our families also, anticipating what our children or spouses are going to say and interrupting and hurrying them along. To improve family communication we need to try to talk less and listen more. Another good tip is to know when to talk. Most people, including children, don’t like to talk about a problem when they’re tired, worried, hungry or busy. Try talking with your kids when they’re settled in bed and spend time with older school aged children awhile before expecting them to discuss their problems. Doing chores together can be an opportunity for relaxed interaction. You may also want to try having family meetings. They are a good way to practice problem solving skills, promote communication and build family unity.
Resource: Work & Family Life, Nov. '94, Vol. 8 #11
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