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Helping children cope with a parent's job loss (Week 3/22-28)
Nina Chen, University of Missouri Extension Human Development
Specialist
A change in financial status due to the loss of a job is a difficult
crisis for families to experience. How
parents handle the situation can influence their children so it is
important to communicate with them in an age-appropriate way, said a
University of Missouri Extension human development specialist.
“Although parents don't need to tell children all the details about
the layoff, they need to be open about the change,” said Dr. Nina
Chen. “In the absence of information, children's imaginations can
take over, which may cause behavioral problems.” Parents may want to
wait until the job change happens to tell children unless the
company's impending layoffs are announced in the media. Offer a
truthful message, for instance, "My company is telling some workers
to leave their jobs. This may happen to me. I will let you know as
soon as I hear anything." Children under 7 years old don't need a
lot of information: "I don't have a job anymore because my company
doesn’t need as many workers."
Optimism and reassurance are important messages that children need
to hear from their parents. Let children know that you have plans to
meet with a career counselor or conduct a job search. Communicate
what to expect, for instance, "We will need to make some changes in
our expenses and lives, but we will be together and we will keep you
safe." This message can help children feel secure and hopeful.
Although appropriate for parents to share their negative feelings,
avoid burdening children or making promises.
Another important message that parents should send to their children
is that mom or dad haven't made a mistake. Children are likely to
assume that a parent did something wrong to lose a job. Older
children may blame their parents for the loss: "You lost a job and I
have to stop taking piano lessons.” “Layoffs may influence
children's attitudes toward the job market and shake their
confidence,” said Chen. “Parents need to talk about these issues
with their children and encourage them to share their fears.”
Give children opportunities to be part of the decision-making
process for making changes and cutting expenses. This involvement
can help children feel a sense of control over the outcome and feel
they are contributing. For instance, if finances are tight, parents
can ask children to make the choice between piano and skating
lessons. This process teaches children how to cope when things go
wrong and gives parents an opportunity to model resiliency.
A job layoff can be painful for some families, although most cope
well with the emergency. “Crisis can mean opportunity or danger,
depending on how people view the situation and deal with the
crisis," said Chen. “Parents need to demonstrate a positive
attitude. Communicate what you have not lost, such as your family's
love, your skills, your health, your hope and your sense of humor.
Exhibiting an angry and unhealthy response to the job loss may have
negative consequences for the children.”
Re-evaluate your 2009 nitrogen fertility program (Week 1/18 - 1/24)
Julie Abendroth, University of Missouri Extension Agronomy
Specialist
Traditionally, corn growers apply nitrogen at excessive rates to
accommodate for loss due to adverse weather conditions and excessive
moisture. Nitrogen rates are generally based on the desired yield
goal, but this is only one factor to consider. The optimum nitrogen
rate varies from field to field and year to year, influenced by soil
type and weather conditions.
During the growing season, weather conditions affect the rate of
crop growth, rate of nitrogen uptake, amount of available soil
nitrogen and the degree to which nitrogen is leached from the soil
profile. Attempting to determine the appropriate rate before the
season begins can be a challenging and frustrating experience for
many growers. As a result, growers have often employed a strategy of
applying “more than enough nitrogen,” as a form of cheap insurance.
From economic and environmental perspectives, this tactic is no
longer feasible.
Corn
producers need to re-evaluate their nitrogen fertility program for
the 2009 cropping season. They need to determine whether to adjust
the rate, material or timing of nitrogen applications. Even small
adjustments in their strategies can equal large monetary returns.
The
maximum nitrogen uptake for corn occurs when corn is hip-high to
nearly tasseling. However, the majority of nitrogen applications in
West Central and Central Missouri are made during the fall and
spring months. The objective should be to apply fertilizer as close
as possible to the period of rapid crop uptake. This can be done by
side-dressing nitrogen during the growing season.
Rather
than applying nitrogen at a rate determined prior to the growing
season, technology is now available to determine the appropriate
rate based on crop color. This appears to be the most reliable
indicator of how much nitrogen is needed. To read the crop’s color,
sensors can be mounted either on tractor-based or high-clearance,
side-dressing equipment to control application rates. University of
Missouri fertility specialists have teamed with local producers to
investigate this application method in on-farm trials, which are
showing promising results.
For
more information, contact Julie Abendroth, MU Extension agronomy
specialist, at
abendrothj@missouri.edu, youro local MU Extension office or
extension.missouri.edu.
Midwestern Disasters May
Result in Tax Benefits (Week 1/11 - 1/17)
Carole G. Bozworth,
Family Financial Education Specialist
Last year’s violent weather resulted in a great
deal of property damage in Cass County. Because of the quantity and
severity of damage, Cass County was one of 27 Missouri counties
declared a part of the Midwestern Disaster Area (MWDA). Citizens of
these counties who suffered financial lossesas a result of severe
storms, tornadoes, or flooding between May 20, 2008 and July 31,
2008 may be eligible for some tax relief. While the 1040 tax form
instruction booklet and IRS Publication 17 hint at tax relief being
available for individuals involved in these MWDAs, you will need to
check Publication 4492-b to get detail about whether you might
qualify for the relief available. Unfortunately Publication 4492-b
has not yet been published but it is expected to be available soon.
Following is a summary of the type of relief that will be available
to those who qualify:
1.
The limits for certain personal casualty losses have been
suspended. If you suffered qualifying losses of personal-use
property, the losses may not be subject to the $100 or 10% of
adjusted gross income limitation. The losses must be attributable
to the storms or tornadoes. If your losses were reimbursed by
insurance or other source then you cannot declare the losses on your
tax return but the suspension of limits means that if you were not
reimbursed for your losses then you can deduct a larger dollar
amount on your tax return. Further, if you have non-reimbursed
losses, you can deduct the net disaster loss even if you do not
itemize your deductions. Do this by completing Form 4684 and
entering your net disaster loss on line 6 of the Standard Deduction
Worksheet—Line 40 in the Form 1040 instructions.
2.
If you made a charitable contribution for relief efforts
related to the storms, tornadoes, or flooding occurring in the
designated time period in Cass County , you may be able to use a
higher standard mileage rate in figuring any out-of-pocket expenses
you had in giving services. You may also be able to exclude any
mileage reimbursements from income. Finally you may be able to
claim a deduction in excess of the usual limits on charitable
contributions made for relief efforts.
3.
If you provided housing to a person displaced by the
Midwestern storms, tornadoes, or flooding, you may be able to take
an additional exemption amount. There will be special rules for
time and support tests for people who were temporarily relocated
because of the Midwestern disasters.
4.
If you suffered a loss during the Midwestern disasters, you
may be able to use your 2007 earned income to figure your 2008 EIC
and additional child tax credit. This would be especially helpful
to working individuals whose income may have suffered because of the
disaster.
5.
There will be special rules for withdrawals and loans from
IRAs and other qualified retirement plans for victims of the
disasters.
6.
Students who attended a qualifying post-secondary institution
in a Midwestern disaster area may be able to receive a higher Hope
or Lifetime Learning tax credit this year. The student does have to
file the form 8863 to receive the credit but limits for the credit
have been raised for students attending qualifying schools.
There are additional tax benefits that may be
available to taxpayers who suffered financial losses because of the
storms, tornadoes or flooding of last summer but information about
these benefits is so sketchy, that it would be better to wait until
Publication 4492-b is available and consult it to take full
advantage of all tax benefits. Given that the information about all
benefits is not yet available, if you did suffer a financial loss as
a result of any of the disasters, it might be wise to wait awhile to
file your taxes until complete information is available on all of
the tax benefits for which you might qualify. |